The school mask tragedy

cartoon head of angry man juxtaposed on a clenched fist

Recently where I live, a lawsuit brought by hundreds of parents against the governor’s policy of requiring children to be masked and teachers to submit to vaccination or testing won a temporary restraining order. Masking is now “optional”, despite all health authorities stating that it is vital to remain masked, especially for the case of higher risk environments, such as daycares and schools. I have children at both public and private schools, and I’ve written in a previous post about the private school’s folly and cavalier nature with which they have treated all things COVID-19 related. Despite being 2 years into the pandemic, I’m still utterly surprised by the level of vitriol that plague enthusiasts (PE) exhibit to all things mask related, and that’s leaving out the same toward basically any other type of mitigation, be it vaccinations, quarantines, or testing. If the consequences of the PE’s stubbornness didn’t actually impact the lives of others, their antics might actually be humorous. It is amusing that after 2 years of the pandemic, PE’s haven’t really been able to get on the same page as to why they hate masks so much. It’s amusing in the sense that it shows how foolish they are at heart, and the nature of their disagreement. Everything that they attempt to come up with is a thin pretext, a flimsy excuse, meant to cover the absolute stupidity of the core issue for them, which is this: they just don’t like the masks and just don’t like being told that they have to do it. That’s really all it is, sad to say. This makes the tragedy all the worse; the consequences of their obstinacy have real life and death effects on people’s lives, and it’s all due to “preferences”. They don’t want to wear a mask, and they realize how asinine the naked protest would be on it’s own; so they take to inventing reasons for not wearing it. This is where I find the humor; seeing the idiocy of millions of obstinate people, ashamed of the real reason for not wanting to wear masks, generating what they think are acceptable, intelligent, or at least socially passable reasons for being a selfish wretch of a person. Here are some examples of things I’ve heard in the past 2 years in no particular order:

  • They don’t want to breathe their own carbon monoxide[sic].
  • The mask is dirty and exposes them to filthy bacteria and germs (from their own body, ostensibly). 
  • They feel like they might pass out and or feel like they can’t breathe
  • They can’t sing/speak with it on.
  • They don’t want to be controlled
  • Don’t want to wear a face diaper.
  • God didn’t intend for us to cover our faces since we were made in His image.
  • Wearing a mask is bad for child development and emotional health.
  • It’s a personal choice for me and my family
  • It’s up to my level of comfort – you do you, and i’ll do me

These are some of the more common ones which I would imagine that most people are familiar with, and I’m sure there are plenty more which I’ve not heard. The point is that no one can get their story straight — and it is delicious! I just wish they could also appreciate the humor in this, and so that is partly my motivation for this post. 

The other reason for this post is to speak to the other erroneous pretext that gets a lot more agreement from the PE crowd, and this is the subject of choice. It’s been a rally cry from almost the beginning of the pandemic. There is an idea, which is largely implied, that people just want the option to choose what to do, and that at the same time, we must trust that they will make the most responsible decision. It’s as if they are saying, “Just give us the chance to do what is right, and we will do it”. With the recent lessening of COVID-19 restrictions, and in my case, schools being forced into this situation of allowing “choice”, we can now see exactly how these people will act. And it’s really no surprise to anyone that their choice is to not wear a mask. I’d like to elaborate on two points based on this observation:

1) It’s about compassion, not choice

2) PE’s loss of all health related credibility 

It’s about compassion, not choice. From the beginning of the pandemic until now, it’s always been about compassion. Compassion in the sense of looking out for others, especially for those more vulnerable than ourselves. It’s been about realizing the interconnectedness of our country, not to mention our world – but let’s keep it simple and focus on our country. The idea was that we could work together, to get through this once in a lifetime pandemic. Each person had the opportunity and power to keep the virus from spreading from themselves to another. The ripple effects of all of us doing this could be so powerful. We could protect the most vulnerable from an untimely death, we could keep hospitals and ICU beds available – not only for COVID-19 patients, but for all the countless others who typically need access to hospitals for all the other reasons that are always in play. We might use our knowledge and technology to possibly end a pandemic, or at least get through it with a minimal loss of life. The desire for others to live, to have access to hospitals, to not be overworked at those hospitals, to be able to be in person for school is rooted in compassion. And that ethereal trait, compassion, was able to be demonstrated in a very real and practical way; wearing a mask, and keeping your distance. It’s so simple it’s almost ridiculous, but it is also such an incredible opportunity to show solidarity with our fellow citizens and to show that we care about them enough to take simple and practical measures to keep them safe. I don’t know that we will ever be presented with another opportunity to be able to show so many people that we don’t know that we care about them. When a PE says that they want the choice to wear a mask, it’s a pretext for their desire to not be inconvenienced to wear a mask, and so they try to take on the air of enlightenment, giving the rest of us “permission” to wear the mask if we so choose. Because it’s a facade, and not really at all interested in making sense, I waste my time trying to reason them out of their position – they didn’t come to their position using reason, so reason certainly won’t get them out of it. I also waste my time if I try to explain that masking is most effective if everyone does it, as it has a great deal more to do with you keeping the virus to yourself than it does to protecting me from getting it. But combining those different layers, you wearing yours, me wearing mine, is additive; together they give us all a better chance of slowing the spread. Trying to point them at scientific sources of information is also a waste for the same reason; that, and many of the PE crowd tend to prefer their info from 5 word memes on social media platforms, and asinine sound bites from politicians who see this as an opportunity to ride rage waves to their next term in office. A favorite refrain of these people when it comes to masks is “Well you do whatever your family is comfortable with and we’ll do whatever our is”. I’ve heard this from people who claim to be Christians, which is particularly disappointing; and even more disappointing is that it has been from Christians who one might consider mature or strong in the faith. For me the pandemic has shown how little wisdom and love there is in certain mainstream groups of Christians.

The loss of all credibility

One stark memory that will stay with me is just a few months into the pandemic, how there were certain states that had minimal to almost no COVID-19 precautions in place. They seemed to take pride in the fact that the virus wasn’t an issue there, and they acted and spoke as if because of that, they didn’t need to do anything or take any precautions. Beyond their disregard for the obvious fact that COVID-19 would be upon them imminently, they shared one other common trait: their governors were Republicans. I, at the time, was Republican as well. The news reports of the group of governors basically acting like fools was embarrassing to me; I really couldn’t believe it. I couldn’t understand what was wrong with them; I still don’t know. But it marked an important period; the rise of the Plague Enthusiasts. From that time on, the denial of COVID-19, its severity, danger, etc seemed to spread, faster than the virus could. People started creating and employing the aforementioned pretexts for why they shouldn’t have to wear masks, throwing tantrums when asked to put them on, and trying to equate their crusade of not having to wear a mask to all sorts of things that it shouldn’t be equated to (like the holocaust, communism, war for independence). The anger that parents of school children have shown about mask mandates has never made sense. The equation of anger with regard to the minor inconvenience of a mask does not balance with how overblown it has become in some circles. Even at my own school, a Christian principal couldn’t even bring himself to recommend vaccination to students and their families, trying to pass off his apathy using the misguided “both sides have equal points” reasoning. On a separate but related track, PE’ dealt in misinformation tropes about vaccines, conspiracies, and accusations about how the pandemic was being overhyped to make former President Trump look bad. (And yet, now that Trump is gone, those of us who took the pandemic seriously then still take it seriously) There’s a lot more that could be said on the tidal wave of misinformation that PE’s dealt in and amplified – and it would be good to learn about if you are not familiar with it. My point here is to remind us how from the outset, PE’s overarching goal was to oppose anything related to fighting or slowing the spread of the virus. Whether it was misinformation about the virus, vaccines, infection or death rates, or masks – nothing was safe from their collective surplus of ignorance and rage. From the time when we knew little, to now when we know so much more about the virus – the PE’s have shown intellectual immunity to the science surrounding it the entire time. What they’ve effectively shown is that they are unwilling to be informed by anything if they believe it might require the slightest inconvenience to them. It’s clear they picked their preferred outcome (believing there is not a pandemic) by disregarding all evidence – which is fine, to each their own. But because they’ve eschewed science and what it’s learned about pandemics in the last few hundred years, they have relinquished any rights to set public policy for it or to have their voice taken seriously. And what I mean by that is that as long as they choose to live in a fictional reality, they also lay down their claim to have a seat at the table with those of us who choose to live in reality. Nothing that they scream and yell about at a school board meeting needs to be taken seriously. What they post online, or yell at their representatives matters; they are living in a fantasy, and their ideas and thoughts on the pandemic are therefore untrustworthy. There are not “both sides” here; while there is room for debate about mitigation of COVID-19, and especially when and how we exit the pandemic phase, it should happen amongst those who take the science seriously. When we are trying to decide whether we drop mandatory masking, of what use is the angry Dad or Mom who never thought a child should be masked in the first place? Or who likewise never understood why a vaccine mandate or passport could be a good idea? These people offer nothing to a good faith discussion because by definition, they have not shown an interest in participating in good faith. This also applies to the senators, representatives, and judges who have tapped into the rage for their own political gain – their use of their positions of power to fight and weaken public health mitigations is harmful and shameful. It’s harmful to people’s health, and it’s harmful to democratic institutions, because it validates people’s ignorant mindsets that they deserve to be heard when they spout nonsense. It’s shameful because rather than seeking to correct the ignorant perspectives of their constituents, they’ve decided instead to go along with it, with a selfish eye to the next election.

As we move into what will hopefully be the post pandemic phase, when it comes to the idea of “choice”, especially in schools, your choice is between greater and lesser harm. The potential harm that comes from not wearing the mask is great, especially when compared to minor harm of wearing the mask. Administrators of schools can still in many cases make masks required; this has 2 advantages: first, it offers blanket protection, and is a choice that chooses on the side of protecting others. Second, it reduces conflict – a blanket policy removes the conflicts that arise from those who are at different places of comfort with masking, and chooses the lowest common denominator. And no matter what an angry parent may tell you, the kids really are ok wearing a mask during school. Those who would espouse choice would have you believe that the choices are somehow equal, and try to convey how great an inconvenience it is for them to put on a mask. They operate in a blissful ignorance of the multitude of ways that their behavior can impact others, and they do so at the expense of compassion and degradation of their own humanity. I would hope that going forward, those who espouse freedom and choice would see that to exercise one’s freedom doesn’t necessitate that all actions be self-serving; often the better use of freedom is choosing to exercise it in service of another.

The Christian COVID-19 failure

Looking back at 2020, I’d like to look at a particular aspect which has been disturbingly jarring for me – the attitudes and actions that I’ve seen among Christians – the American variety.  I, myself, am a lifelong Christian, but this year in particular has opened my eyes to some stark realizations in the differences between how I see that some of them have chosen to implement their faith.  Some of these people I’ve witnessed personally, and others I am aware of through news reports. What follows is not a comprehensive accounting of all the disturbing things I’ve seen, but it does contain a nice cross section of Christians from various traditions – Christians who hail from Lutheranism, Reformed, Pentecostal and Baptist traditions. I would like to hope that these examples are outliers amongst Christians, but unfortunately I fear that they are likely faithful representations of a larger segment of American Christians.

The behaviors I’d like to highlight include:

  • Holding church services, unmasked, in violation of the state lockdown order for non-essential businesses
  • Christian school leaders facilitating activities conducive to the spread of the Coronavirus, in spite of being informed of the risks.  
  • Christian school leaders ignoring the state level guidelines on mask usage, and creating rogue mitigation strategies in favor of face shields, as well as denying the authority of state authorities
  • Mature Christians posting misinformation about vaccines, defamatory claims of philanthropists, peddling conspiracy theories, and racist statements
  • Famous pastor disregarding science and the authority of the state and holding church services (California)

Churches holding services in violation of lockdown orders

Near the start of the pandemic, in March of 2020, the state I live in went into lockdown.  Non-essential businesses had their operations restricted or were prevented from being open, and essential businesses had severe restrictions limiting the number of people who were allowed into a building.  I became aware of a local church, which, despite apparently not meeting for the first couple of Sunday’s during the lockdown, received a “word from the Lord” which they used to justify that they should continue to meet. They claimed that they desired to obey the ruling authorities; however, based on a bizarre interpretation of scripture, the church leaders came to decide that they no longer had to honor them.  If you’re curious about their interpretation, there was a significant date related to the governor’s orders which they believed coincided with when they believed the original Passover occurred. The Passover, of course, was the event after which the enslaved Israelites were led from Egypt and delivered from Pharaoh. They believed that because the original Passover date and the date on which the first statewide restriction ended coincided, that this was proof that God wanted to “deliver” them from the rules and policies of the state.  The governor extended the restriction beyond their “Passover”  date, but the church decided to go ahead with their “deliverance” model. It’s not as if they didn’t have the ability or technical know-how to conduct remote services, as they were a church which already was broadcasting services on a weekly basis – they just decided that they wanted to continue meeting.  Not only did they meet, but when they met, they met unmasked, with much hugging.  I think it’s worth noting, that during one of their subsequent services, mention was made of them meeting despite the prohibitions, and it was clear from various indignant and defiant shouts in the sanctuary that no one was going to tell them what to do — even if that meant forcing them to act out out of love for their neighbors and show that they care about the community.  The local police department was ineffectual, and stated concerns about not wanting to “violate freedom of worship”, but I got the sense from the police chief that he didn’t have much interest in pursuing any other available tools which may have been at his disposal. They continued to meet in these conditions for many months until restrictions were eased — and I’m quite sure they never did implement any mask requirements for their services.

Christian school’s willfully risky behavior

My children attend this particular Christian school, and it was near the end of the school year in May of 2020 that an email was sent to parents of children in the choir.  The students at the school, like many others across the country, were in remote learning. The choir director’s email was asking for interest in the school’s annual song presentation, done to honor graduates — it would be recorded and streamed on YouTube, but would require slightly more than 10 students to sing on a stage, and to be unmasked — to quote the choir director, “because you cannot sing with masks on”.  At this point during the pandemic, meetings were restricted to 10 or fewer indoors, and certainly while wearing masks.  I was quite surprised that this idea was even being proposed, so I sent an email to the school principal with a link to an article which detailed how a meeting exactly like this became a super spreader event, infecting dozens, with 2 individuals ultimately dying.  I sent the article wondering if he and the director were aware of this article.  The principal graciously mentioned that they had been aware of the article and that “We feel, based on advice and guidance from others” that they would be able to do it safely.  He never disclosed who these others were, or whether their guidance or scientific knowledge eclipsed that of the CDC or our state’s department of health.  He also never specified how this situation would be different from the spreader event mentioned in the article.  Reviewing the finished video, there were 14 children present on stage, and certainly no more than 6 feet of distance among the participants. He also didn’t disclose that the choir director was of the sort of personality who was generally opposed to mask wearing, making her especially ill-advised council for how to safely conduct a meeting with children during a pandemic. It is interesting to note, that this would have been done during a time in a northern climate when the weather would have been conducive to recording the entire thing outside.  Also of note, the church had previously used a cool technology which allowed individuals to record themselves, from the safety of their homes, and then combine all the videos and sound to allow them to appear to be singing together; this technology was not used, although the choir director had herself appeared in videos which used it prior to this. So if masks really were required to be off, there were many safer, and more reasonable alternatives to what was eventually chosen.

Christian school ignoring state guidelines

A few months later, prior to the start of school for the Fall of 2020, and after mask usage had unnecessarily become a political football, the school sent out a series of surveys which helped to clearly show the fault lines within the community.  The survey asked about parental preferences and opinions regarding students for mask wearing vs using face shields.  It should be noted that near this time, our state board of education in an effort to reduce/eliminate the mask use issue had mandated that mask usage would be required in all schools — face shields were not allowed.  At this particular Christian school, however, it was abundantly clear that mask use was a major hot button, hence the reason that face shields were even mentioned as a potential option to returning families.  To give a sense of how much of an issue that this posed, there were many families who answered the survey indicating that if any face covering, whatsoever was required, then they would not be returning to the school for the coming year.  In fact, the face mask was so controversial, that the school decided to go the route of using face shields, and putting plexiglass dividers on the students desks.  Those who advocated for mandatory mask use as a stipulation to their return were in the definite minority.  My wife and I asked to have a meeting with the principal to share our concerns and try to understand where the school was coming from with their decision to go with face shields.  We shared with him that the state requirement was for masks, and that the board specifically called out shields as not being effective for viral “source control”.  He reflected that he heard us, and that as Christians they desire to obey the authorities, referencing Romans 13.  So, how did they plan to justify not having to obey the authorities?  When I asked this directly, he paused, appeared very uncomfortable, and stated that he didn’t want it to come across the wrong way, but that he didn’t think the state board of education had authority — so, problem solved, apparently. (Humorously, a month later, he did reverse course and finally abandoned the face shield idea; apparently the threat of fines and legal fees from resulting disobedience to the state board were enough to rethink his commitment to Romans 13).  

When I asked him why mask use was such an issue, he stated that it would interfere with social/emotional development, and that was why it was so important to him for people’s mouths to be seen.  When I asked him for his source, he effectively engaged in hand waving, pointing to a super thick book on education and implying that it was part of the body of knowledge from his training as a teacher. (My wife who also happens to be a teacher, was as unconvinced as I on this issue, and agreed he was blowing smoke)

Christians peddling misinformation

Several Christians in my life, and one in particular that I’m close to, have been posting disinformation on a social media platform.  They represent differing Christian traditions, but these individuals are definitely ultra right politically.  I have witnessed them reshare or post things which are blatantly false and which show lack of concern for any sort of fact checking whatsoever. They also show a lack of concern for defamation — maybe they suppose it is ok when it comes to politics? Some examples I’ve seen: posts of unscrupulous doctors who cast doubt on the seriousness of the pandemic, references to the QAnon pedophilia theory, a post stating that Bill Gates once funded a vaccine that would keep people from believing religion, doubts/fears about the ingredients of covid-19 vaccines. In some of these cases, I engaged.  Other times I flagged them for removal from the social media provider.  What types of responses did I receive from these lifelong Christians?  In one case, the poster relented and removed the obviously false information.  In the other cases, I was asked “how do we know what truth is?”, and “who gets to define truth”, and the flat out rejection of mainstream news sources as untrustworthy.  While it’s true that some media sources might view things from a certain perspective, and that we must take perspectives into account when assessing the usefulness of a source, what I encountered is a flat out rejection of anything these sources said, merely on the basis that they did not like what was being said.  Moreover, I was told that we can’t trust them — that the correct posture to take is to assume that they are lying.  I found it so sad that these individuals could be so deceived and untrusting of others, and unwilling to recognize that such a stance is unloving.  Even more disheartening was their willingness to make their beliefs public in association with the name of Christ.

Famous pastor disregarding science

In California, a famous pastor, made headlines by mocking the coronavirus and having his church disobey the orders of the local authorities. I was very familiar with this pastor, as I had read several of his books in the early years of my faith.  I respected this gentleman for many years, until finally hearing his unreasonable views on evolution – but that’s a topic for another time.  But around April of 2020 this man began engaging in covid denialism which was characteristic of Trump and allies, and then tried to use the bible as an excuse for disobeying the lock down orders for Los Angeles. How did he justify it?  By saying that Christ, not Caesar is in charge of the church, and that civil leaders can’t tell them what to do. This author of such books as “The God who loves” couldn’t seem to grasp that as followers of “The God who loves”, we also need to love others as he loved us.  And that rather than look out for the needs of others, or seek other’s best interests, or reduce the amount of suffering and death that is in the world, he would rather selfishly promote what he wants, and what his congregation wants.  Instead of helping to bring forth the Kingdom of God on earth, he brought forth a different kingdom; he flipped Christ’s already inverted kingdom values and asserted the values of the world.  He is not alone to blame; his attitudes are a broad reflection, I believe, on a substantial portion of American Christianity.  Thanks to him and those like him, by their actions they have managed to do the opposite of what we were commanded to do in the sermon on the mount.  They increased many peoples’ poverty of spirit, made more people suffer, parched the throats of those who thirst for righteousness, blessed themselves in their arrogance, made peacekeepers harder to find, and brought persecution upon themselves for unrighteous behavior. 

Conclusion

In reflecting back on this, several questions come to mind.  

  • Why did these Christians act this way? Are these just anecdotal examples of American Christian’s behavior, or does this point to a systemic flaw?
  • Did they actually do wrong?
  • Is reducing suffering and death in the world something that should be done when it is our power to do so?
    • Does this relate to our prayer for “God’s Kingdom to come”
    • Do humans have the ability to bring about hell on earth?
  • How much suffering and death came about by their selfish behavior?
  • If they don’t realize they’ve acted as a poor witness
    • Will they ever repent or will they continue to cause damage with their worldview?
  • If a worldview is built upon imaginary elements, could that cause people to act in destructive ways?